Savage Family
In May 2007 my beautiful little four year old daughter
Naomi was diagnosed with a 10cm x 10cm brain tumour - barely more
than a mother's instinct had made me take her to my local hospital
and persuade them to check her out. Fortunately, being a
member of staff there, they humoured me, none of us expected the
diagnosis.
A fast track ambulance trip to Leeds started a journey
that we are still on. An emergency 13hr operation to save her
life and debulk the tumour was followed by 15 mths of intensive,
inpatient chemotherapy and two further operations. The last
operation took half her sight, but that seemed a small price to
pay.
During this time, her then 1 yr old sister was looked
after by my wonderful parents and inbetween visits to hospital we
made the most of our time together.
Since the end of 2008, Naomi has been in remission -
nothing about Naomi's future is ever mentioned by her
consultant and at each six month scan, I register his surprise that
she is still here and that the cancer has not yet returned.
In some ways this normal/abnormal way of life is harder to deal
with than the turmoil of the 18mths following her diagnosis when we
were all fighting.
Having had her back from three operations, doubting I
would have her back but having no choice but to kiss her goodbye as
she was put to sleep - not knowing what I would get back - the
thought of losing her is almost beyond comprehension despite so
many close calls.....however she IS here and she is great and,
as you know Luke, to the naked eye, nobody would know what she's
been through, what disability she's been left with nor how fragile
her future is.
So I hope you will be pleased that you have helped Naomi
fulfil one of her wishes - to swim in a sea 'sparkling like
diamonds'!! And she did it a fair few times off a fair few
beaches along your lovely coastline.
We are so grateful to you Luke as the founder of THHN
and to all the generous participants - we wouldn't have been able
to afford to do half the things we did, if not for their
kindess.
On arrival we took a free ride on the Babbacombe
Cliff Railway and the girls dipped their feet in the sea, a
great start!
Back to the Hotel De La Mer and trying to contain the
girls' excitment at our two rooms that you'd earlier shown us, and
a delicious dinner - the girls felt like proper little princesses -
it's not quite the service they get in our caravan!
On Sunday, we had a great visit to the Babbacombe
Model Village and viewed the 4D film which was all free, as
was our very interesting visit to the Bygones Museum and Kents
Caverns - brilliant experiences for all of us.
During the week we also went up in the Hi-Flyer (except
for their dad!), went to Pennywell Farm, Woodlands Park, The Otter
and Butterfly Sanctuary, explored the beautiful Cockington village
and grounds, and enjoyed Hanbury's fish and chips al fresco (Amy's
wish!).
The last day was spent at Preston Sands and we were
so grateful for the use of the beach hut and boards - a magical
experience. Knowing now the circumstances behind the hut
makes my heart contract, so thank you - such generosity when the
greatest loss has already been experienced, well it's beyond
words.
So thank you everyone for giving us happy memories, the
girls are already creating a scrap book - this holiday was great,
particularly as their dad has also been very ill and had to have
half a lung removed three months ago - the hills of the 'Riveria'
have been great rehab - who'd have thought it?!!!
I can see THHN is going from strength to strength,
awesome. And the intertwining stories - Alice and her amazing
mug! Hannah and Sam carrying the torch for raising awareness
and funding for brain tumours. Naomi too fronts a fund
set up to finance research into this cruel disease http://www.naomisfightforlifefund.org.uk/
Well done and good luck, and I hope with efforts like
theirs, we can start to look to more than luck to secure our loved
ones' futures.
There are some great people out there!!
Love and best wishes Lucy, Mark, Naomi and Amy
xx
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